Secondly, by casting such public aspersions upon your character, don’t they, in effect, prove themselves to be less than virtuous?

Please. Why don’t these people TRY not to indulge their hypocrisy on such a regular basis? The pretense of piety in the face of your so-called public display of affection, with your HUSBAND (GASP! HORROR!), might I add, is nothing but a disguise for the morally corrupt.

If I were the one who heard this, I’d laugh in their faces. Truly hilarious, Nina. That was a good one.

NEXT!

Well, nina, ppl r so judgmental selectively. You really hit the spot when u pointed out – wat’s de diff with other Malay celebrities holding hands with not their muhrims and you (or any other person for that matter) with a Caucasian. Dey seem to think that it’s okay between the same race, be it married or not, but not when it’s between other races. Like WTF? Unfortunately, there r many of such species in Asia, especially in Singapore and Malaysia.

Most of the times when people talk about others, they dun seem to realise that they have done worse or similar. But then again, humans will be humans. They find it quick to gloat over someone’s misfortune or criticise one’s handicap but is real slow in praising another’s glory. I dunno if it’s just jealousy or it just kills them to say a nice thing or two…

No… U didn’t hold hands with Lan before u were married. I was there.. I didn’t see that happening.
And even if u do.. Its not morally wrong to date and hold hands, no? Why scrutinize it when it’s U who does it? I bet they do more than just holding hands during the mini skirt 60s era while they boogie their night away to Jeffy’s Din hits.

my thoughts about clarification and asking before making a statement… if you were given a sane brain to think, make use of it. i’m not perfect and neither am i a preacher but usually words of the Book says it best. a reminder to all of us, myself included.

Wahai orang yang beriman, jika datang kepada kamu seorang fasik membawa sesuatu berita, maka selidik (untuk menentukan) kebenarannya, supaya kamu tidak menimpakan sesuatu kaum dengan perkara tidak diingini, dengan sebab kejahilan kamu (mengenainya) sehingga menyebabkan kamu menyesali perkara yang kamu lakukan. (Surah al-Hujurat, ayat 6)

but u see at least those friends asked u for confirmation, despite their technique of questioning (or the lack of it forthatmatter). still, they asked.

i think the alarming thing is more of your friends, who wags their tails in front of u, but god knows what they say behind your ass. or even your neighbours. it’s a penyakit melayu. penyakit conjunctivitis. it will never go away. unless u go away. so i think the best is to just carry on squeezing Lan’s ass la.